Anthu ambiri amakhala ndi chikumbukiro chimodzi m'miyoyo yawo, nthawi yomwe imakhazikika m'chikumbukiro chawo. Ambiri a iwo ali okhudzana ndi tchuthi chabanja chomwe chimabweretsa malingaliro abwino a kukhala pamodzi ndi okondedwa. Zokumbukira ngati izi ndizosowa, ndipo mukufuna kuzisunga. Mumasangalalanso mukaganizira za iwo. Chifukwa cha maganizo amene amabweretsa, n’kwachibadwa kufuna kuti ana anu azikumbukira zinthu zabwino.
Tchuthi ndi njira imodzi yosangalatsa kwambiri yolumikizirana ndi banja lanu ndikukhala limodzi nthawi yabwino, kutali ndi zododometsa za tsiku ndi tsiku kunyumba. Inu ndi banja lanu muyenera kupuma pazochitika zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku, komanso kukumana ndi china chatsopano. Kupatula kupanga zikumbukiro kwa moyo wanu wonse, mumalimbitsa ubale wanu monga banja. Kukhala pamodzi kumakuthandizani kuti muziganizirana wina ndi mzake ndikuyamikira okondedwa anu kwambiri. Mukhoza kusankha nyumba zazikulu zobwereka ndipo pezani wina wosamalira banja lanu ndikusangalala ndi nthawi yamtengo wapatali yomwe muli limodzi.
Nawa malangizo othandiza okuthandizani kukonzekera tchuthi chosangalatsa chabanja.
1. Kulongedza katundu
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zingakhale zovuta kwambiri kuposa kukonzekera kwina ndicho kulongedza katundu, makamaka banja. Yambani kukonzekera msanga polemba mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe mukufuna kuti ntchitoyi ikhale yosavuta. Mukayamba kukweza zinthu izi m'masutikesi, mutha kuziyika pamndandanda wanu. Dziwani zanyengo komwe mukupita ndikunyamula zinthu moyenera. Yesetsani kusadzaza katundu wanu, ndikusiya malo azinthu zomwe mungafune kupita nazo kunyumba. Nyamulani zofunika zokhazo chifukwa ana anu aang’ono angafunikire zinthu zambiri zoti azinyamula.
2. Konzani zochita zanu limodzi ndi banja lanu
Chifukwa ili ndi tchuthi labanja, zingakhale bwino kukonzekera zochitika zomwe aliyense angasangalale nazo. Mungafune kuphatikizirapo a m’banjamo pamene mukupanga mapu a ulendo wanu, kupeza zimene angakonde kuchita kapena kuwona. Mukhozanso kuyang'ana malo odyera omwe amapereka zakudya zomwe ana anu amasangalala nazo. Konzani nthawi yocheza ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ndikukonzekera zochita zomwe nonse mungakonde. Kupatula apo, ndi nkhani yabanja, choncho aliyense azikumbukira kwawo.
3. Konzani zosamalira zomera zanu ndi ziweto zanu
Pamene mukukonzekera tchuti cha banja lanu, mungayambenso kukonzekera zimene mwasiya kwa masiku angapo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli ndi ziweto, muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti zili zotetezeka komanso zodyetsedwa bwino mukakhala kutali. Mungafune kusungitsa chiweto chanu ku hotelo ya ziweto kapena kuti achibale ena azisamalira. Momwemonso, zomera zanu zimafunika kuthirira nthawi zonse, choncho kumbukirani kuzipereka kwa munthu amene angathe kusamalira zosowa zawo.
A banja tchuthi ndi ulendo nonse mungayembekezere. Ndi mwayi wochoka kunyumba ndikukhala ndi nthawi yabwino ya moyo wanu ndi banja lanu. Muyenera kuyesetsa kuchoka pa nthawi yanu yotanganidwa kuti mukakhale ndi okondedwa anu.
