(eTN) - Kuti tipeze chiyambi cha Tsiku la Valentine timabwereranso ku Ufumu Wachiroma kumene February 14 poyambirira anali holide yolemekeza Juno Mfumukazi ya Milungu ndi Amulungu Achiroma komanso Mkazi wamkazi wa akazi ndi ukwati.
Emperor Claudius II (268 - 270), yemwe amadziwikanso kuti Claudius the Cruel, ankakonda kuyambitsa nkhondo zakupha komanso zosakondedwa zomwe ankafuna amuna ambiri. Zoyeserera zake zolembera anthu sizinaphule kanthu kwa amuna omwe amafuna kukhala ndi mabanja awo komanso okondedwa awo. Kuti awapangitse kukhala “mwamuna” iye anathetsa chibwenzi ndi maukwati onse.
Wansembe wachiroma, Saint Valentine, adapitilizabe kukwatira mabanja mobisa mophwanya Mfumu. Claudius atazindikira, Valentine anagwidwa, natengedwera kundende ndi kuweruzidwa. Anayenera kumenyedwa ndi zibonga mpaka kufa komanso kudulidwa mutu pa 14 February.
Pamene anali m’ndende, St. Valentine anayesa kukhala wosangalala ndipo achinyamata amene anawakwatira anabwera kudzamuona m’ndende, akumamupatsa maluwa ndi zolemba.
Mmodzi mwa alendo ake anali mwana wamkazi wa mlonda wa ndende yemwe analoledwa kukaona Valentine m’chipinda chake. Atakhala ndikulankhula kwa maola ambiri, mtsikanayo analimbikitsa St. Valentine kupitiriza kuchita maukwati mobisa.
Patsiku lomwe adayenera kudulidwa mutu, adasiyira mnzake chikalata chomuthokoza chifukwa chaubwenzi komanso kukhulupirika kwake, ndipo chidasainidwa, "Love from your Valentine." Tsikuli linali February 14, 269 AD.
Tsopano chaka chilichonse patsikuli, anthu amakumbukira ndikusinthanitsa mauthenga achikondi pa Tsiku la Valentine; Mfumu Claudius amakumbukiridwa kuti anayesa kuima m’njira ya chikondi.
Global Romance Trivia:
Ku US, ukwati ndi bizinesi yayikulu. Pafupifupi miyambo 6,200 imachitika tsiku lililonse kwa 2.3 miliyoni pachaka. Mwa izi, maukwati 123,300 adachitidwa ku Nevada mchaka cha 2002.
Zaka zapakati pa ukwati woyamba kwa akazi ndi zaka 25.3 pamene ine ndiri zaka 26.9.
Boma lomwe lili ndi chiŵerengero chapamwamba chaukwati ku US ndi Idaho ndi 60 peresenti; New York ili ndi otsika kwambiri pa 50 peresenti
M’zaka za m’ma 500 mpaka m’ma 500, anyamata ndi atsikana ankajambula mayina m’mbale kuti aone amene adzakhale osangalala. Ankavala mayinawa m’manja kwa mlungu umodzi. Kuvala mtima wanu pamanja tsopano kumatanthauza kuti n'zosavuta kuti anthu ena adziwe momwe mukumvera.
Ku Wales spoons zachikondi zamatabwa zimasema ndi kuperekedwa monga mphatso pa February 14. Makapuwo amakongoletsedwa ndi mitima, makiyi ndi makiyi kutanthauza "kutsegula mtima wako."
M’mayiko ena, ngati mtsikana alandira mphatso ya zovala kuchokera kwa mnyamata - ndipo akusunga mphatsoyo, ndiye kuti adzakwatiwa naye.
Ukwati, chikondi ndi chikondi zikupitirizabe kutchuka - mosasamala kanthu za nkhondo ndi kuchepa kwachuma. Ngati zenizeni sizikupezeka, ofufuza zachikondi amatembenukira ku mabuku achikondi, ndipo zopeka za Romance zidapanga $1.37 biliyoni pakugulitsa mu 20006.
Zopeka zachikondi zidagulitsa msika uliwonse mchaka cha 2006, kupatula zachipembedzo/zolimbikitsa
Makumi asanu ndi anayi mphambu atatu pa zana aliwonse owerenga Romance ndi akazi ndipo m'modzi yekha mwa amuna 50 adawerenga buku la Romance mu 2002.
Ngakhale kuti chikondi chimakhudza dziko lonse, kafukufuku amene Pew Internet and American Life Project Online Dating Survey (2005) adachita, anapeza kuti achinyamata ambiri ku America "sadzifotokoza kuti akufunafuna anthu okwatirana nawo."
Ambiri mwa akuluakulu a ku America (56 peresenti kapena anthu 113 miliyoni) sali mumsika wa zibwenzi (ali okwatirana kapena akukhala ngati okwatirana); komabe, chiwerengero cha omwe angakhale okonda zachikondi akadali ochuluka.
Pafupifupi 43 peresenti ya akuluakulu (87 miliyoni) amati ndi osakwatiwa. Pakati pa onse osakwatiwa, 16 peresenti yokha amati akufunafuna okwatirana naye. Izi ndi 7 peresenti ya anthu akuluakulu. Pafupifupi 55 peresenti ya osakwatiwa amanena kuti alibe chidwi chofuna kukumana ndi chibwenzi; Izi ndizowona makamaka kwa amayi, omwe adasiyidwa kapena osudzulidwa, komanso kwa omwe ali osakwatiwa achikulire.
Osachotsera Ma Singles
Kodi zonsezi zikutanthauza chiyani pamwayi wamabizinesi? Kopita, mahotela, malo odyera, ndi zokopa ziyenera kuzindikira kuti zibwenzi, maukwati ndi tchuthi ndizofunikira komanso misika yofunikira - komabe, kuyang'ana pa okwatirana okha ndipo banja likuchotsa gawo lalikulu la msika.
Tsiku la Valentine limakondwererabe - koma nthawi zina "ofunikira ena" si mwamuna kapena mkazi, kapena bwenzi. Koma, monga Saint Valentine adadziwira-kukhala bwino ndi "bwenzi lapamtima."
