Ulendo waku Iran: Nanga bwanji kukwera matola ngati mkazi?

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Ku Iran kulibe nkhondo, dzikolo nthawi zambiri limakhala lotetezeka, ndipo moyo wawo ndi wofanana ndi waku Europe. Zomangamanga ndi zokongola, malo osiyanasiyana komanso anthu .. anthu aku Iran ndi abwino kwambiri. Ndiwokoma mtima kwambiri komanso ochezeka, ndipo nthawi zonse amafunitsitsa kukumana ndi alendo okhala ndi khomo lotseguka komanso kapu ya chai. Ndi dziko lodabwitsa.

Sindinayambe ndakhalapo kudziko lomwe malingaliro ake ali kutali kwambiri ndi zenizeni.

Komabe, kukwera pamahatchi ku Iran kungakhale kovuta, kaya ndinu mwamuna kapena mkazi. Anthu ambiri m’dzikoli sanamvepo za mawu akuti ‘kupalasa njinga’ kapena ‘kungoyenda basi’, osangoti akudziwa tanthauzo lake. Mukangowoloka malire kum'mawa kuchokera ku Armenia kapena Turkey mudzapeza anthu ambiri akukuyimirirani popanda vuto lililonse, koma ndi cholinga chokha chobweretsa alendo otayikawa kumalo okwerera mabasi apafupi (pafupi ndi kukuitanani chai kapena chakudya kunyumba kwawo).

Chomwe sichithandizanso ndichakuti ku Iran chizindikiro cha "thumbs up" chimatanthauza chinthu chamwano, ndiye kuti muyenera kugwedeza ndi mkono wanu kuti magalimoto ayime. Monga mkazi, mudzakumana ndi zowoneka bwino komanso zosadziwika bwino, popeza azimayi aku Iran nthawi zambiri samayenda okha.

Nchifukwa chiyani mumakwera ngati mkazi?

Anthu aku Iran ndi ochereza kwambiri, ndipo amakhala okonzeka nthawi zonse kuthandiza mkazi (kapena mwamuna) wosowa. Kufotokozera kuti simukusowa thandizo, ndimatha kudzisamalira nokha komanso kwenikweni kusangalala kuyimirira pafupi ndi msewu waukulu kudikirira galimoto, ndichinthu chomwe anthu ambiri sakuwoneka kuti sakupeza. Kuyesera kukwera maulendo (kapena msasa wakutchire) pamodzi ndi wapaulendo wina wamkazi adandiphunzira kuti anthu sangathe kapena sasankha kuti asamvetsetse zomwe mukufuna kuchita, chifukwa ndizowopsa kwambiri m'malingaliro awo. M'malo mwake, amakutengerani kokwerera basi, kukwera taxi, kukulemberani zikwangwani zothandizira apolisi kapena kukuperekezani m'basi. Pamene ndinkakwerako masiku enanso ndi mnyamata, kusiyana kwake kunali koonekeratu. Ndili ndi munthu pambali panga, anthu anatigwetsa pafupi ndi msewu waukulu ndipo anatilola kuti tizimanga msasa wolusa (potsirizira pake). Zoonadi, iwo anali adakali osokonezeka ndipo anatiitanira ku nyumba zawo mmalo mwake, koma chenicheni chakuti chiganizo chakuti 'chimenecho nchoopsa kwambiri kwa inu' chinachepetsedwa kuchoka pa khumi kufika pa nthawi imodzi patsiku chimasonyeza kukula kwa kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi.

Ndiye ndiyenera kuchita chiyani, ngati mkazi wodziyimira pawokha yemwe wapanga njira yonse yokwera mabasiketi kuchokera ku Netherlands kupita ku Iran, ndikakumana ndi kugonana kotere?

Inde, sindinangogonja..

Ngakhale anthu mdziko muno ali ndi nkhawa kwambiri ndi malingaliro aukali a apaulendo achikazi, Iran ndiyotetezeka. Nthawi zambiri, vuto lalikulu kwa amayi oyenda okha ndi chitetezo chokhudzana ndi chidwi chosayenera (chogonana) ndi abambo. Ku Iran, iyi sinali nkhani yaikulu kuposa dziko lina lililonse limene ndakwerako. Kunena zoona, amuna a ku Iran amene ndinakumana nawo pokwera galimoto anali aulemu, osatalikirana nawo ndipo ambiri anali aulemu. Zachidziwikire, nthawi zonse pamakhala njira zodzitetezera zomwe muyenera kuzitsatira mukamayenda nokha kapena ndi akazi okha, koma masiku 31 omwe ndimakhala mdziko muno sindinadzimve kuti ndine wotetezeka.

Chinthu chabwino kwambiri ndi chakuti mukalandira kuitanira kunyumba ya munthu wina ku Iran, simuyenera kudandaula za kukhala nokha ndi mwamuna wachilendo, chifukwa kwenikweni aliyense m'dziko lino amakhala pamodzi ndi banja lawo.

Limodzi la masiku athu oyambirira ku Iran, bwenzi langa Lena ndi ine tinatengedwa ndi mnyamata wachichepere, amene anatiitanira ife chakudya chamasana kunyumba ya banja lake. Inali imodzi mwa zoitanira zambiri zomwe tinalandira ndikuvomera. Monga tinali ndi masiku ochepa chabe ku Iran, sitinkadziwa kuti ndi liti pamene kunali koyenera kuvula chovala chamutu komanso kuti sichiyenera. Agogo a m’nyumbamo anachotsa nkhawa zathu mwakutisonyeza iye yekha tsitsi ndipo anamwetulira. Madzulo, achibale ndi mabwenzi ambiri anafika. Tinavina pamodzi, kudya pamodzi ndikugonjetsa zopinga za chinenero makamaka ndi kusakaniza kwachi Farsi, Chituruki ndi Chingerezi, kumwetulira, kujambula zithunzi ndi mfundo zambiri. Pamene ana anatitengera kunja kachiwiri, kuti tipite mumzinda muli kusiyana pakati pa dziko ndi kunja kunakhala bwino kwambiri. Zovala zamutu zidayenera kuyambiranso ndipo ngati wina atatifunsa timayenera kukumana mphindi zingapo zapitazo. Tinaphunzira movutikira za zomwe sizinali zoyenera, popeza anyamatawo ankawoneka kuti akuchita manyazi pang'ono ndi khalidwe lathu laphokoso 'lachilendo' komanso kuvina mwachisawawa m'paki. Titabwerera m’katimo, tinatha kuvinanso ndi kusangalala ndi chakudya chamadzulo chokoma ndi banja lonse.

Pakukhala kwathu ku Iran, ndimayamika kwambiri agogo a mayiko. Chakudyacho ndi chokoma kwambiri, ndipo ngakhale ndine wosadya masamba, anthu ankayesetsa kuti aphike mbale ya ku Iran popanda nyama.

Mukuchita chiyani pano, m'mphepete mwa msewu?

Popeza chidwi chosafunika kuchokera kwa amuna sizovuta kwambiri ndiye kuti m'chigawo china chilichonse chomwe ndidakwerapo, zovuta zomwe zimakumana nazo zimakhudzana kwambiri ndikufotokozera anthu m'njira yoyenera zomwe mukuchita, momwe zimagwirira ntchito komanso kuti asade nkhawa. za inu.

1. Kufotokoza zomwe mukuchita

Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chokwera pamahatchi ku Iran ndikutuluka mumzinda, kudutsa pokwerera mabasi ndi/kapena kokwerera ndikuyenda mopitilira kudutsa madalaivala onse. Ine ndi mnzanga wamkazi (tinkayenda ndi tonse awiri nthawi yanga yambiri ku Iran) nthawi zambiri timangoyamba kuyenda mumsewu, ndipo anthu amangoyima chifukwa cha chidwi kuti awone zomwe mukuchita komanso ngati angakuthandizeni. . Njira ina ndiyo kupanga zizindikiro za mzinda womwe mukufuna kupita ku Farsi, ndikuyima m'mphepete mwa msewu.

Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti kukwera njinga ndi autostop sikukhudza konse, chifukwa anthu sakudziwa zomwe mukunena. Kumbukirani, ali ndi mbiri yosiyana ndi Europe. Palibe ma hippies azaka za m'ma 60, sanakhalepo ndi mbadwo wamaluwa ndi kusintha kwachikazi.

Theka la nthawi, ndidawonetsa lemba ku Farsi kwa oyendetsa omwe adafotokoza kuti tikuyenda ndi ndalama zochepa (chinachake chachilendo ku Iran), ndikuti sitimakwera ma taxi, mabasi kapena masitima apamtunda. Tikufuna kukumana ndi anthu akumeneko ndi kuyendetsa nawo galimoto popita komwe akupita, ngati zili bwino nawonso.

Chofunikanso ndikufunsa kaye kwa dalaivala komwe akupita, chifukwa amangonena komwe mukufuna kupita. Mwina chifukwa akufuna kukubweretsani kumeneko chifukwa cha kuchereza alendo komanso chidwi, kapena chifukwa adangosanduka taxi yapayekha (ndipo amayembekezera ndalama).

Liwu loyandikira kwambiri kukwera pamahatchi ndi ‚salaavoti’, kutanthauza kuti “mapemphero abwino” motero kwaulere. Ndinagwiritsa ntchito theka lina la nthawi kufotokoza zomwe tikufuna kuchita.

2. Momwe zimagwirira ntchito

Chinachake chomwe chimakonda kwambiri ku Iran ndi lingaliro la Tarof. Mwambo umenewu umachititsa kuti anthu akupatseni kukwera, chakudya, malo okhala kapena china chilichonse chongochitika mwachibadwa, ngakhale kuti sichoyenera kwa iwo. Kuti muwonetsetse kuti zomwe mukufuna ndizoona osati 'chopereka cha Tarof' ndikofunikira kufunsa kangapo ngati china chake chili bwino ndi munthu wina. Mukakwera pamagalimoto izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kufunsa kuti ‚Salaavot okay?’, Pool (ndalama) ndiest?’, ‘Kodi mukutsimikiza?’, ‘No Tarof?’ musanakwere galimoto.

3. Sayenera kudandaula

Mukangolowa mgalimoto ya munthu ngati mlendo ku Iran, ndinu mlendo wawo. Ndipo ngati ndinu mkazi wapaulendo ndipo palibe mwamuna wina pafupi, inunso ndinu udindo wawo. Dzikoli lili ndi miyezo yochereza alendo, ndipo anthu akuchitirani chilichonse ngati mutapempha (komanso ngati simutero). Komabe, lingaliro lokwera pamagalimoto ndikuti mumayendetsa ndi munthu bola ngati kuli koyenera kwa onse awiri, osati kuti anthu aziyendetsa 100km kuti akuthandizeni kapena kulipirira basi yanu (kwenikweni, zinthu izi zimachitika kwambiri. ku Iran). Kupangitsa dalaivala kuti akusiyeni mumsewu waukulu ndiye vuto lalikulu kwambiri kwa azimayi okwera pamahatchi. Ndi chinthu chopanda udindo kuchita, kuti madalaivala nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto. Mzungu "mumachita zanu ndipo ine ndimachita zanga, palibe mafunso omwe amafunsa" chikhalidwe sichigwira ntchito mdziko muno konse.

Nthaŵi ina, ine ndi mnzanga wapaulendo wamkazi tinali kuyenda kudutsa msewu waukulu pakati pa malo opanda kanthu (tinangotsitsidwa mwachipambano ndi galimoto), pamene apolisi anafika. Iwo anatifunsa zimene tinali kuchita komanso ngati tikufunika thandizo. Tinayesetsa kuwafotokozera kuti tinali bwino ndithu, sitikusowa thandizo lililonse ndipo akhoza kutisiya tokha. Tinatsala pang'ono kuganiza kuti tapambana, mpaka tinalowa m'galimoto ndipo galimoto yapolisi mwadzidzidzi inali patsogolo pathu - kutsekereza galimotoyo kuti isayendetse patsogolo. Anatiuza kuti tituluke m’galimotomo kuti tikaone mapasipoti athu. Ndikuganiza kuti anadabwa kwambiri kuti tinaloŵa m’galimoto yachilendo ndipo tinafunikiradi thandizo lawo kuti tituluke m’mikhalidwe imeneyi, osadziwa kuti iwo analidi kuchita zosiyana. Tinkadziwa kuti anthu akuda nkhawa kwambiri ndi ife atsikana tikawauza zomwe tikuchita, koma kuimitsidwa ndi apolisi ndikupemphedwa kuti tikhalebe pomwepa pomwe abwera ndi yankho loti atifikitse ku Tehran - zinali zosiyana kwambiri. za nkhawa. Pamapeto pake, anatikweza m’galimoto, ndipo anatibweretsa ku mzinda wotsatira, kumene wapolisi wina ankayembekezera kutikweretsa basi. Panalibe njira yotsutsa.

Njira yokhayo imene ine ndi mnzanga wapaulendo tinakwanitsa kulola anthu kutisiya pa msewu waukulu inali kulimbikira kwambiri ndi kulunjika. Khalani okonzeka kugwetsedwa pamalo okwerera mabasi, kokwerera ndi kumaofesi apolisi nthawi zambiri, musanamve lingalirolo.

Kulowa mu mtima wa chikhalidwe

Mukangokwanitsa kupita kwinakwake pokwera makwerero ndikuyamba kusangalala nazo, mudzatha kuwona Iran yeniyeni. Iran kuseri kwa zitseko zotsekedwa, pansi pa hijab komanso mkati mwa chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe. Chikhalidwe chomwe malamulo onse okhwima omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pa "moyo wakunja" samawoneka ngati ofunika kwambiri. M’magalimoto ndi m’nyumba zawo, anthu ndi amene amasankha zochita ndi zimene angachite. Ili ndi gawo la Iran lomwe simukufuna kuphonya. Kupatula zomwe ndizofunikira kumvetsetsa ngakhale zazing'ono kwambiri za anthu osangalatsa awa.

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