Kugonana ku Sin City ndi nkhani yovuta kwambiri, koma ndidatha kuichepetsa mpaka m'magulu awiri - mwina ndiwaulere kapena uhule. Mtundu wa kugonana ndi amene akuyenera kukhala naye ndi zisankho zomwe zimatengera chinthu chimodzi chosavuta: nthawi. Kufuna kugonana mwachisawawa kumakhala kosasintha tsiku lonse, koma gawo lazotsatsa la Craigslist limakhala lotanganidwa kwambiri panthawi ya "skag hours," zomwe ndizomwe mwamuna wogonana amatcha maola apakati pa 2am mpaka 5 am (nthawi yomwe makalabu amatseka ku Vegas). Panthawi ya "skag hour," pamakhala mowa wokwanira kuti apatse ngakhale mlendo wamanyazi ku Vegas wochita zachiwerewere kuti achite zomwe akufuna.
Kwa oyendayenda ogonana a Vegas, funso siliri momwe, koma ndi kugonana kotani. Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, kugonana ku Sin City kumaphatikizapo zilakolako zambiri - kuyambira kufatsa mpaka kutchire, awiri mpaka magulu, ndi zina zotero. chithunzi) Vegas ndi mzinda womwe sugona tulo, kotero kuti mwayi wosankha zogonana mumzindawu sizovuta konse. Kwa iwo omwe ali okonzeka kulipira zogonana, mlanduwu ndi wochuluka kwambiri.
Kugonana mwachisawawa mwachiwonekere sikovuta kwambiri ndipo sikufuna kufotokoza zambiri. Kugonana ndi zotsatira za chisankho chopangidwa ndi anthu ogwirizana omwe ali ndi chidwi chogonana. Ndinalemba momveka bwino "maphwando" chifukwa kugonana ku Sin City kuli ndi zosiyana zambiri. Kupitilira m'modzi-m'modzi, kugonana kungaphatikizepo mchitidwe womwe umakhudza anyamata awiri ndi mtsikana kapena atsikana awiri ndi mnyamata kapena anyamata atatu ndi mtsikana, ndi zina zotero.
Ku Sin City, mwayi wokumana ndi munthu wogonana mwachisawawa ulipo kwa iwo omwe ali ndi chidaliro chokwanira kuti awatenge. Mabala ndi makalabu, makasino, malo odyera, malo ochezera mahotelo, ngakhale zikwere zamahotelo ndi malo ku Vegas komwe ndikotheka kukumana ndi munthu wachikale - pamasom'pamaso.
M'mawu amakono, kuyang'ana kugonana nthawi zambiri ndikosavuta monga kutsitsa pulogalamu yachibwenzi/hook-up kapena kupita pa intaneti. Mapulogalamu amapezeka nthawi yomweyo (palibe kukambirana kwautali), mwachindunji (amayika malo anu ndikukuwonetsani anthu omwe akuyenda moyandikira) ndipo nthawi zambiri amapangidwa kutengera zomwe amakonda. Mawebusaiti omwe ali ndi gawo lazotsatsa (monga Craigslist.com ndi Backpage.com) amapatsa alendo ochita zachiwerewere ku Vegas mwayi wopezeka pagulu lazotsatsa zawo, zomwe zimakhala zosiyanasiyana komanso zapadera momwe zimabwera. Mosasamala za kugonana, mtundu wa Vegas wa masambawa ndiwotsimikizika kuti umapangitsa chidwi cha alendo ogonana chifukwa amapereka mwayi wokhala ndi kusankha kwakukulu. Chifukwa chake, kupangitsa kuti zitheke kufufuza ngakhale zilakolako zamkati.
Ngati simunadziwe, Craigslist ndiyoposa kugulitsa ndi kugula zinthu, ndi zina. Ku Vegas, gawo lazotsatsa la Craiglist limakopa zolemba zambiri ndipo zimasinthidwa pafupipafupi (mphindi 15 zilizonse), kupangitsa kuti Mr. Mayi Akuyang'ana Pakalipano kuti apeze zomwe akuyang'ana. Langizo ndi losavuta: sankhani mtundu wa kugonana womwe mukufuna, kenako tumizani kapena yankhani zotsatsa.
Komabe, kuyang'ana kugonana mwachisawawa pa intaneti kungakhale chinthu chachinyengo chifukwa mawebusaiti omwewo ali ndi zotsatsa za "abwino" (ochita zogonana) okopa bizinesi. Malonda a ogonana nawo amatha kukhala ndi mawu oti “mphatso,” “chopereka” ndi/kapena “duzi” omwe ndi malamulo ogulitsira kugonana.
Chifukwa chiyani ma code? Mosiyana ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, uhule ndi wosaloledwa ku Nevada's Clark County, womwe umaphatikizapo mzinda wa Las Vegas womwe umayang'anira. Maganizo olakwikawa amachokera makamaka chifukwa chakuti uhule ndi wololeka m’madera ena a Nevada komanso chifukwa mawu akuti “Sin City” akutanthauza kuti uhule ndi mbali ya “khalidwe lauchimo” la mzindawu. Izi sizili choncho. Munthu akhoza kutchova juga mpaka ndalama zonse zitatha. Munthu akhoza kumwa mowa kwambiri monga momwe angathere. Malingana ngati munthu woteroyo samwa mowa ndikuyendetsa galimoto, lamulo siliphwanyidwa. Komanso, munthu atha kutenga nawo gawo pakugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo bola apolisi sakukhudzidwa. Momwemonso ndi uhule. Ingokhala nkhani yalamulo ngati agwidwa ndikuchita nawo.
Chotsatira pamndandanda: Chinsinsi chakuya komanso chamanyazi cha Las Vegas chawululidwa.
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