Za cholowa cha mwamuna wake wophedwa, iye amakhalabe wonyada. "Ndili wonyada, wonyada kwambiri," adatero Jehan Sadat, Mayi Woyamba wa Republic of Egypt. Mosachita mantha, osawopsezedwa ndi kulengeza koipa, iye ananena mosadodoma kuti: “Anaimba mwamuna wanga mlandu wa chiwembu, koma palibe amene anapanga mtendere pang’onopang’ono koma motsimikizirika ndi Israyeli monga momwe Sadat anachitira.”
Bullets ikanatha kubisa thupi lake lopanda zipolopolo patsiku lachisoni mu Okutobala 1981, pomwe Sadat adaphedwa pagulu lankhondo lokumbukira kupambana kwankhondo yaku Egypt mu Okutobala 1973. Palibe chomwe chinalasa moyo wa Jehan. “Pamodzi ndi banja langa ndiponso anthu mamiliyoni ambiri, ndimanyadira zimene mwamuna wanga anachita. Ngakhale anthu, mayiko ndi atsogoleri achiarabu omwe poyamba ankatsutsana naye tsopano akupeza nzeru kuchokera ku zomwe anachita zaka 27 pambuyo pake, "adatero pofotokoza za ntchito yake yokhazikitsa mtendere.
Wokwatiwa ndi Purezidenti wakale wa Egypt Anwar Sadat, Jehan wakhala wodzipereka kwa amayi ndi ovutika. Amayenda pakati pa Egypt ndi US kupititsa patsogolo malingaliro, code Free Officer Sadat adakhalamo, tsopano ikuyaka mkati mwa Jehan. Munthawi ya Anwar, adawona mwayi wotenga nawo mbali poteteza ufulu wa amayi. “Mwamuna wanga anali wolimbikira kulimbikitsa ufulu wa amayi, mphamvu ndi malo ake oyenera m’chitaganya. Ngati akazi akanangophunzitsidwa, ngati akazi akanangothandiza amuna kumanga chitaganya chabwino chimenecho, dziko likanakhala langwiro. Ngati theka la anthu silichita kalikonse, nthawi idzaima kaamba ka mtundu wa anthu.
Yang'anani gulu lopita patsogolo lomwe lili ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri, muyenera kungoyang'ana ntchito zomwe amayi amachita kuti afotokoze kupambana m'deralo. Umu ndiye chikhulupiriro changa - chifukwa chomwe ndimagwirira ntchito kukweza amayi," adatero.
Wolandira mphoto ya Living Legacy yomwe amasilira kwambiri ku Women's International Center, Mayi Sadat anapereka chitsanzo cha chiyembekezo kudzera mu maphunziro ngakhale ali ndi zaka zambiri. Monga umboni, iye mwini anabwerera kusukulu ali ndi zaka 40. “Ndinamaliza maphunziro a yunivesite ndipo ndinapitiriza MA. Patatha zaka 6, ndinali ndi PHD yanga. Maphunziro amatsegula zitseko zingapo kuti munthu azigwira ntchito kulikonse. Ndikadapanda kukhala ndi maphunziro abwino, sindikadaphunzitsa ku Egypt ndi ku States. ” Masiku ano, amakhala ndi maulendo ophunzirira padziko lonse lapansi kuchokera ku Europe, ku Asia ndi Russia mothandizidwa ndi maphunziro am'mbuyomu ku University of Cairo komwe anali pulofesa pomwe anali Mkazi Woyamba.
Pankhani yolankhulidwa mofala, “Ndimakhulupirira kuti akazi angachite bwino kwambiri kufalitsa mtendere. Akazi ndi amayi omwe amayanjanitsa ana akamamenyana pa zinthu zazing’ono kapena akazi atayima pambali pa amuna awo pa nthawi ya masautso. Ndimakhulupirira udindo wapadera wa mkazi yemwe amapanga atsogoleri akuluakulu kuchokera kwa amuna ndi anyamata. Amapereka chidziŵitso ndi mfundo zabwino koposa mu ubwana wake kuyambira paubwana wake kufikira uchikulire. Chifukwa chake, amayi sayenera kungowona udindo wawo pagulu ngati wodziyimira pawokha kapena wodziyimira pawokha, koma ayang'anenso pa ziyeneretso zomwe maphunziro ndi ofunika. Ndimalota kuwona akazi m’maiko onse ali ophunzira kwambiri.”
Kufunafuna kuwerenga ndi zomwe Pulofesa Sadat amalakalaka kwa onse. “Sinachedwe! Ndi ulendo wautali, wautali wofunika kuudikirira,” anatero wochita mtendereyo mwa iye yekha.
Zikadakhala zofunikira panthawiyi, zidali zoyenereranso kuyesetsa kuwonetsa azimayi ena oyamba mbiri yake ngati mkazi wapulezidenti. Bungwe loyamba la African-Arab Women's League linali limodzi mwa mabungwe angapo omwe adawakhazikitsa ngati mayi woyamba. Kusonkhanitsa amayi oyambirira a ku Africa ndi Arabu, ndi amayi awiri kapena atatu omwe ali okangalika pakati pa anthu, adachita misonkhano ikuluikulu yomwe adagawana ndi kuphunzira kuchokera kuzochitika za wina ndi mzake. "Kuti tithandizane, kumanga mgwirizano pakati pa Egypt, Africa ndi mayiko ena achiarabu chinali cholinga changa, pozindikira kuti amayi osauka m'chigawo chonsecho ali ndi zofanana pamaphunziro, maphunziro, zachuma ndi tsogolo la ana." Akazi a Sadat anatenga Amayi kupita kuzinthu zakale ku Egypt, kuyenda panyanja pamtsinje wa Nile komanso ku akachisi ambiri akale. Zachisoni, panalibe kutsatiridwa kulikonse kuyambira pomwe adachoka ku Palace. Pambuyo pa imfa ya Purezidenti Sadat, ntchito zake zomwe zimatchedwa Made in Egypt ndi zina zomwe adatsogolera mwamuna wake asanamwalire zidatengedwa ndi omwe adalowa m'malo mwake Mayi Suzanne Mubarak.
Jehan wapita patsogolo ndipo pambuyo pake adayang'ana maphunziro. “Ndinali kuphunzitsa pa yunivesite ya Cairo m’nthawi ya mwamuna wanga. Kenako ndinasamukira ku Washington, DC kukaphunzitsa.” Ana anali m'gulu lalikulu la Sadat, ali ndi atatu ake ndi zidzukulu 11. Midzi ya Ana ya SOS inayambika m’nthaŵi ya Sadat atapita ku Austria. Midziyi inali nyumba yosungira ana amasiye pamlingo waukulu. “Nditachita chidwi nditakhala tsiku limodzi ndi ana kumeneko, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti ndingachitenso chimodzimodzi ku Egypt, ndinatsimikiza kuti ndiyenera kupita patsogolo.”
Kuyambitsa bungwe lachifundo kwa amayi, ana kapena achinyamata ku Egypt kumafuna kuti munthu alipire ndalama zochepa pa malowa, pafupifupi dola imodzi pa ekala. Sadat anali ndi malo. Dr. Kamaina yemwe adakhazikitsa midzi ku Austria adamuyitanira kuti akachite ntchito zofananira ku Egypt, ngati atha kugawira malo ku SOS. Kamaina adapereka ntchitoyi kwa iye; kuyambira pamenepo mudzi unali m’manja mwake. “Mwamuna wanga anatsegulira mudzi woyamba ku Cairo. Pambuyo pake, ndinamanga ina ku Tanta pakati pa Cairo ndi Alexandria ndi malo achitatu ku Alexandria. Sindingakuuzeni kuchuluka kwa ana, omwe adabwera ali omvetsa chisoni pachiyambi, asintha ndikukhala athanzi komanso achimwemwe,” adawonjezera.
Mosiyana ndi nyumba ina iliyonse yosungira ana amasiye, mudziwu unali ndi 'amayi' omwe amasamalira ana 6 mpaka 7 ochokera kosiyanasiyana. Mudzi uliwonse unali ndi nyumba 25 pansi pa olera 'wophunzitsidwa' kapena amayi oima. Mosiyana ndi kukhazikitsidwa, anthu akumudzi amawoneka ngati banja limodzi lalikulu, labwinobwino, lachimwemwe. Amayi a 'Surrogate' ankaphika ndi kuwachapira ana omwe amapita ku sukulu ya kindergarten kapena sukulu zaboma ndipo masana amapeza nyumba yoti abwerereko. "Ponseponse, zimatengera chikondi cha amayi ndi mabanja, kukweza miyezo ya moyo kwa amayi akumidzi," Sadat adatsimikiza.
Wafa wal Aamal (kapena Faith and Hope mu Chingerezi) ndi bungwe lachifundo lomwe Mayi Sadat anathandizira kupirira zikwizikwi za olumala. Pokhala m’nkhondo yapakati pa Igupto ndi Israyeli, iye anakonza dongosolo lalikulu. “Ngakhale mwamuna wanga asanayambe kuchita mtendere kuti athetse nkhondo, ndinayamba kugwirizana ndi asilikali ankhondo olumala ndiponso anthu wamba. Ndinkafunadi kupereka chiyembekezo kwa anthu anga mwa kuphunzitsa anthu odulidwa ziwalo kuti agwire ntchito, powalola kubwereranso monga anthu okangalika m’chitaganya.”
Kulimbikira kwake kumbuyo kwa Chikhulupiriro ndi Chiyembekezo kudachokera pakuphunzitsa omenyera nkhondo omwe anali osowa kuti ayesere kulowanso m'deralo ndi masomphenya a mawa. “Inali projekiti yanga yayikulu kwa osowa. Ndinawatumiza kumisasa ya olumala ku Germany; ndiye iwo akanabwerera ku Igupto. Tinawayendera powatumiza kuzipatala zathu kumeneko. Ku Egypt, tinatsegula malo opangira dialysis komanso fakitale yopanga ma prosthetics. Ntchito ina yoyandikana ndi mudzi wa SOS inatenga gawo laling'ono la malo a SOS kuti athandize anthu olumala, malo ochitiramo ntchito zapakhomo ndi zakunja komanso gulu loyang'anira zamankhwala. Ndidabweretsanso a Frank Sinatra ku Egypt ku konsati yomwe ndalama zake zidapita ku SOS ndi Wafa wal Aamal, zitaphatikizidwa. "
Ataona yekha kuonongeka kwa nkhondo, dona wabwinoyu, yemwe nthawi yophukira ndi akasupe amakhala m'nyumba yake yachiwiri ku Great Falls ku Virginia, amaona kuti nkhani yamtendere ndi yofunika kwambiri. Iye anati: “Akazi akhoza kutengapo mbali limodzi ndi amuna awo ndi ana awo. Apatseni mwayi wokhala patsogolo, atha kupambana nkhondo yothetsa nkhondo ndi ziwawa. ”
