Mumakonda kwambiri anzanu; alendo anu ndi owopsa ndi nsonga mowolowa manja; hoteloyi ndi yokongola ndipo pamene mungafune malipiro okulirapo, chifukwa chenicheni chomwe simukukondwera ndipo mukufuna kusiya ndikuti General Manager wanu ndi narcissist ndi Dark Triad Personality (DTP) ndipo adapanga malo ogwira ntchito oopsa.
Dark Triad Personality (DTP)
Yang'anani mozama zotsatirazi: The Dark Triad Personality Traits (DTP) imaphatikizapo Machiavellianism, Psychopathy, ndi Narcissism ndipo ndi makhalidwe atatu omwe ndi anthawi yochepa, ego centric, ndi njira zowonongeka zomwe zimagwirizana bwino ndi kugwiritsa ntchito makhalidwe osaona mtima ndi onyenga. .
Kwa ife omwe si ma manejala a narcissist ndikofunikira kuzindikira kuti izi ndizomwe zimapangitsa abambo ndi amai kupanga ntchito zopambana ndikukwezedwa kuti akhale ndi maudindo omwe angathe kuwononga komanso kusokoneza gulu. . Makhalidwe a DTP amakhudzana ndi kubera anthu, milandu yachizungu, kupanga zisankho zosayenera komanso zowopsa, kutsika kwaudindo wamakampani komanso zomwe zingayambitse nkhanza kwa omwe ali pansi pawo.
Kusiyana ndi Kufanana
• Machiavellians ndi onyoza, osakhulupirira, ndi opanda chifundo, amayesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe zikuphatikizapo ndalama, mphamvu ndi udindo, pamene akugwiritsa ntchito njira zowerengera ndi zachinyengo kuti apeze zomwe akufuna.
• Psychopaths ndi anthu opupuluma, ofunafuna zosangalatsa omwe alibe chifundo, odziimba mlandu, omwe amatha kukhala ndi moyo wosasinthasintha komanso kusonyeza makhalidwe odana ndi anthu.
• Anthu a Narcissists amatha kukhala otanganidwa ndi malingaliro odzikuza.
Iwo:
o Amafunikira chidwi ndi kusilira nthawi zonse
o Kufuna kukhala wapamwamba
o Kudyera masuku pamutu antchito kuti apindule
o Amakhudzidwa kwambiri akamadzudzulidwa
o Wodzikuza
o Kulephera kuyankha moyenera
o Atha kulimbikitsa ogwira ntchito kuti ayambe kuchita zinthu zosayenera kwa anzawo
o Funsani chithandizo chapadera kwa ena
o Sonyezani kuti ndinu oyenera
o Kusamvetsetsa ndi kulemekeza maganizo a ena
o Awo
Mahotela Amakopa Narcissists
Mofanana ndi magawo ena abizinesi, makampani ochereza alendo amafuna kuti ogwira nawo ntchito azilumikizana mwachindunji ndi makasitomala ndi ogwira nawo ntchito. Ogwira ntchito akuyembekezeka kupatsa alendo malo omwe amakhala ndi zochitika zabwino kuti achoke ndi kukumbukira kosangalatsa. Choncho, khalidwe la ogwira ntchito limakhala lofunika kwambiri pamakampani okhudza anthu.
Kuti hoteloyo ikhale yopambana, ogwira ntchito ayenera kusonyeza makhalidwe abwino nthawi zonse zochita zosemphana ndi ntchito (monga zobisika monga kusakhazikika kuntchito) zomwe zingathe kusokoneza kayendetsedwe ka bungwe ndi kuchepetsa zokolola.
Kusakhazikika pa ntchito kumatanthauzidwa ngati, “kutsika kwambiri ndi khalidwe lopotoka lokhala ndi zolinga zosamveka bwino zomwe zimawononga chandamalecho pophwanya malamulo a kuntchito pofuna kulemekezana.” Makhalidwe osokoneza akuphatikizapo:
• Ndemanga zabodza kapena zonyoza
• Kusalemekeza anzako ndi alendo
• Mawu achipongwe
• Mkwiyo woopsa
• Kudzudzula mwankhanza
• kusaganizira ena
• Kuphulika
Zoyenera Kuziyang'ana
Mudzadziwa kusachita bwino mukachiwona. Khalidweli limawonetsedwa ndi kuchepa kwa magwiridwe antchito, kuchepa kwa magwiridwe antchito, kufooka kwamalingaliro komanso kusintha kwachangu.
M'zaka khumi zapitazi, makampani ochereza alendo awona kukwera kwakukulu kwa utsogoleri wapoizoni womwe umaganiziridwa kuti ukugwirizana ndi zotsatira zowononga. Akafunsidwa kuti afotokoze za "mamanejala oyipa," ogwira ntchito amawona mamenejala odzichitira nkhanza komanso odzikonda ndipo atsogoleriwa amalumikizidwa ndi kupangitsa kuti anthu azikhala ndi nkhawa zambiri pamakhalidwe, kudwala m'maganizo, komanso kuchepa mphamvu pakati pa ogwira nawo ntchito. M'kafukufuku wina, utsogoleri wapoizoni ndi woyipa umalembedwa m'mawu monga mtsogoleri wankhanza kapena wowononga, kapena mtsogoleri wakugahena.
Pali kusiyana pang'ono pakati pa mtsogoleri wankhanza ndi woyang'anira nkhanza ponena za kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu molakwika. Oyang'anira ochita zachipongwe amachita zochititsa manyazi pagulu, kukuwa, kupezerera anzawo ndi kuchitira nkhanza antchito pomwe olankhula monyanyira amatha kukhala odzikuza, opanda chifundo komanso amachenjera. Nthaŵi zambiri amagwiritsira ntchito molakwa mphamvu zawo mwa kubisa kapena kubisa chidziŵitso, kunyozetsa maganizo a ena ndi kusanena zoona kwenikweni monga mmene ayenera kukhalira pofuna kulimbikitsa maganizo awo.
Hotel Atmosphere
Chifukwa General Manager wa narcissistic ndiwowopseza phindu lalikulu, eni mahotela/oyang'anira akuyenera kuchitapo kanthu:
1. Dikirani! Yang'anani izo.
Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti ogwira ntchito amakonda kukhala chete, osuliza komanso kufalitsa miseche ataona kuti atsogoleri awo ndi achinyengo, onyada, odzikuza komanso osawona mtima. Zili kwa oyang'anira mahotela kuti ayang'ane zizindikiro za chiwonongeko chomwe chikubwera.
Pazifukwa zonse, wodyetserako ziweto sadzatha kupitirira ofesi ya Human Resources Manager ndipo sadzalembedwa ntchito yodzaza malo oyang'anira; komabe, luso lawo lowongolera la A+ nthawi zambiri limawalola kuti azitha kulowa m'maudindo akuluakulu.
2. IMANI.
Oyang'anira a HR akuyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mayeso amalingaliro ndi umunthu kuti azindikire yemwe ali ndi vuto kuti asalowe m'gulu. Chofunika kwambiri kwa oyang'anira mahotela chiyenera kukhala cholembera atsogoleri omwe ali ndi makhalidwe abwino, kuphatikizapo kudzichepetsa, nzeru, kumasuka kutsutsidwa, ndi kuvomereza maganizo oipa.
3. Chilango.
Chilango chomveka bwino chiyenera kukhazikitsidwa ndi kukhazikitsidwa bwino kuti achepetse makhalidwe oipa a atsogoleri ndi kuteteza ogwira nawo ntchito m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo.
4. Maphunziro.
Oyang'anira mahotela ayenera kupempha atsogoleri kutenga nawo mbali pa maphunziro ndi chitukuko kuti athe kupewa kudzikonda komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu molakwika, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale chikhalidwe cha kukhulupirika ndi kugwira ntchito mogwirizana.
Iwo Ali Mwa Ife. Chitani Mwanzeru
Akuti 6 peresenti ya anthu a ku United States adapezeka ndi matenda osokoneza bongo. Izi zitha kukhala zosamala ngati mamanenjala ankhanza, odziona ngati "angwiro" safuna thandizo la akatswiri. Ndikofunikira kuwachotsa, komabe, chifukwa ngati aliyense wa iwo amazunza anthu 5 pa moyo wawo wonse, akhudza miyoyo ya anthu 97.8 miliyoni. Zowonjezereka padziko lonse lapansi, zowonongeka zomwe zimayambitsidwa ndi narcissists zimafika pafupifupi 3.4 biliyoni.
Onetsetsani
1. Kodi General Manager wanu (GM) alibe chidwi ndi inu ndi gulu lanu?
Kodi GM wanu akuwonetsa kunyalanyaza malingaliro ndi zosowa za ogwira ntchito…pokhapokha ngati ndinu "wokondedwa."
Kaya mwatambasula kwambiri ndi nkhani za ntchito, mukudwala, kapena mukukhala ndi tsiku loipa, ndipo GM wanu ali ndi maganizo "ndani amasamala" ndipo amapereka "Ndiye chiyani? Osati vuto langa. Inu muzithana nazo. Chokani ngati mukufuna ”- muli ndi bwana wankhanza. Munthuyu akhoza kupita patsogolo ndi kukudyerani masuku pamutu, osakulipirani kapena kusamala za ufulu wanu ngakhalenso kukonza nthawi yowonjezereka popanda chilolezo chanu, kuyembekezera kukhulupirika kopanda malire. kusayamika chifukwa cha ntchito yabwino.
2. Kodi abwana anu amabera malingaliro anu?
Bwana wa narcissistic adzakudyerani masuku pamutu pazifukwa zake zodzikonda, ndikuyika zosowa zanu pansi pa zosowa zawo komanso zosagwirizana ndi kufotokozera kwanu ntchito. Angayembekezere kuti muzichita zinthu zinazake, kugwira ntchito zosayenera, kukukakamizani kugwira ntchito zoweta ziweto, kuwonjezera maudindo anu pantchito - zonsezi popanda chipukuta misozi kapena kuvomereza.
3. Ndiwe yani? Chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kusamala?
Woyang'anira narcissistic amakumbutsa aliyense za kufunika kwake, madigirii omwe ali nawo, masukulu omwe adaphunzira, magulu apadera omwe ali, ma VIP omwe amacheza nawo, mapulojekiti apamwamba omwe akugwira nawo ntchito komanso kuzindikirika kwawo. kulandira kuchokera kwa ena apamwamba-mmwamba chain chakudya.
Amathera nthawi yawo yonse kuyesa kuoneka ngati ofunikira. Kugogomezera kuli pa udindo wawo ndipo akhoza kuwonjezeranso chizindikiro cha golidi pa desiki lawo, kuyika mphoto pamakoma awo, kuyika mapepala awo ndi zikho pamodzi ndi zithunzi zawo ali ndi anthu ofunika.
ZOMWE MUNGACHITE PA NKHANIYI:
- For those of us who are not narcissist managers it is necessary to recognize that it is these traits that enable men and women to build successful careers and secure promotions to c-suite positions where they have the potential to wreak considerable harm and havoc on the organization.
- The hotel is beautiful and while you would like a larger paycheck, the real reason you are unhappy and want to quit is that your General Manager is a narcissist with a Dark Triad Personality (DTP) and has created a toxic work environment.
- In some research, the toxic and negative leadership style is documented in such terms as an abusive or a destructive leader, or a leader from hell.
